Abby, Emmy and A.J. headed off to brave the crowds for their "Black" Friday shopping experience. I've never been one to go to the stores the day after Thanksgiving, but I did end up in one of my favorite store's this morning, as I had fifteen free minutes before taking yet another car to the shop for work. The "deals" looked quite good, but as I walked quickly through the store to make a purchase that I had been planning for some time, I thought, "How good is a 'deal' if you don't need what's on sale?" Throughout this current economic "crisis" our nation and the world is going through, I've been thinking, "Will we really be worse off in the long run if we can't buy a lot of stuff we don't need?" I understand that many folks are in really difficult situations, but how often over the years I've bought stuff that was on sale to "save" money, only to realize two things---1) I didn't need it; and 2) you NEVER save money by spending it. That second point was one my Dad used to drive home to me all the time. Just because you PAID less for something doesn't mean you SAVED anything, because by definition when you SPEND money you haven't SAVED it!
Have you ever wondered why it's called "Black" Friday. According to Wikipedia, the term dates back to the 1960's and originally was so named because of the heavy traffic in Philadelphia on that day. Many also refer to it as "Black" Friday, because it's the day that retailersget in the "black" (realize a profit) for the year, because of the sales that day. While often called the busiest shopping day of the year, from a financial standpoint for the retailers, the busiest(highest sales day) of the year is usually the Saturdayy before Christmas, so if you were out today and think the crowds were crazy, just wait until December 20th! Better yet, really SAVE money, and invest in presents for your family that require TIME instead of money. The retailers may not like it, but the memories created nearly always last longer than that "special deal" you bought at the store.


















