It's Friday, and time for the 4th "Next Step" for those who have been seeking to live in the fullness of the Holy Spirit. The title "Going the '4th' Mile" actually came to me during my prayer/running time this morning on rails-to-trails between Sarver Road and Bear Creek Road. My run for today was two miles out and then walk two miles back. As I was walking the 4th mile, I prayed about today's next step update and God gave me this word: Living in the Spirit is going beyond the second mile. You may remember that in Matthew 5:41 Jesus said, "If a soldier demands that you carry his gear for a mile, carry it two." Jesus' point is that we are to go beyond what we are obliged to do--in that day a Roman soldier had the right to "conscript" anyone to carry his gear for a mile--and take it to the next level, which is the "second mile." We speak of going the second mile when we have gone beyond our duty or obligation. Sometimes we have "second mile giving" opportunities in the church to fund special causes. These give us the opportunity to go beyond the obligation of the tithe.
So, what's the "4th mile"? As I was praying and running this morning, my prayer followed a pattern that I didn't realize until I was walking the 4th mile. The first mile was the "obligatory" prayer--I praised God for who He is and for all He created. I thanked Jesus for coming to the earth to bring salvation to me and to all who will receive it. I asked the Holy Spirit to fill me (as we are commanded to do in Ephesians 5:18). Then as I moved into the second mile, I started to offer petitions for others--mostly family members. I thanked God for the opportunities that He was giving each of them--Nancy, Abby and Emmy today, and asked Him to bless them. Then as I moved to the third mile--the mile beyond going beyond our obligation, and realized that while it was a time of petition and intercession, it was mostly prayer in the Spirit. It was a deeper level of intercession, and it moved out beyond my family, to the elders and leaders of New Life, to those who are sick, and others that the Lord brought to my mind. Then I got to the "fourth mile." This is when it hit me that my prayers had been either for me, or for others, but that I hadn't got to the point of asking God, "What's going on in Your day? What do You have for me today?" So I did it. I asked God, "What are You doing today?" Immediately a scriptural response came to me, "I am pouring out my Spirit on all people so that my young men will have visions and my old men will dream dreams." Cool! As I pondered this a little more I realized something: I had moved to the prayer of FRIENDSHIP with God. We were interacting as friends. I wasn't just offering Him the praise He deserves, or asking for the the things that I need, or even the things that others need. I was relating as a friend! That's the "4th mile."
To go back to Jesus' command, if I carried a soldier's pack for one mile, the mile of obligation, I may not say a word to him. In fact, I may be muttering and grumbling under my breath the whole time. But if I carried it the second mile, I might start to notice that he wasn't all that different from me, and he may start asking me questions about my motivation: "Why carry the pack farther than you're required?" Then if I carried it the third mile, he would probably really become interested, and by the fourth mile we would probably be talking about each other's families and maybe even common interests. If that's the case in interactions between humans, how much more is it the case in our relationship with God! He wants us to know Him deeply. He wants us not only to serve Him, because He deserves our service, but because we love Him. In living the life in the Holy Spirit, we need to be sure that we are going beyond the "1st mile," what we think God expects; and even beyond the "2nd mile" serving in Jesus' name. We need to walk with God to the "3rd mile" the "4th mile" and beyond, because only then will we get so close to God that He starts revealing His plans to us! As we go the 4th mile we'll find that our spirits are connected more and more with His Spirit, and that leads to living in the Holy Spirit at a deeper level. God's blessings as you move beyond the second mile to friendship with God!